How to let them help without losing your head
Wed, 23/12/09 – 12:00 | Comments Off
How to let them help without losing your head

I love it when the guys help me with projects. I really, really, do.
We’ve made fish cakes with enough icing to sink the Titanic and cookies crammed with so many sprinkles you could lose a …

Egg-free snickerdoodles
Wed, 23/12/09 – 8:09 | Comments Off
Egg-free snickerdoodles

It’s not necessarily odd that I’d never made snickerdoodles before tonight.
What is odd, though, is that I’d never had one until a couple of years ago, when someone brought some into work for a potluck. …

Why NOW is wrong about pregnancy and soldiers
Tue, 22/12/09 – 20:26 | Comments Off
Why NOW is wrong about pregnancy and soldiers

Good for Army Maj. Gen. Anthony Cucolo III for backing off his threat to court martial any soldier who gets pregnant – or who assists in putting another soldier in a family way – while …

Beware falling objects!
Tue, 22/12/09 – 15:46 | Comments Off
Beware falling objects!

I’m a fairly safety-conscious parent who pays attention to the product recalls and knows all the traditional advice: Don’t use lights with frayed cords, keep candles away from flammable objects, etc.
But never did I imagine …

The perfect Christmas dinner is … none
Tue, 22/12/09 – 10:30 | 2 Comments
The perfect Christmas dinner is … none

For a few years, I did Christmas dinner right: Appetizers, followed by prime rib, salad potatoes, fresh green beans and homemade rolls with two different cheesecakes for dessert. We used the Christmas china that had …

The best Christmas present ever
Mon, 21/12/09 – 15:33 | Comments Off
The best Christmas present ever

So you know all that blah, blah, blah about the best gifts being free?
It’s true. And the proof is in what landed at our house this afternoon fresh from the East Coast – as fresh …

Romeo and Big Guy-ete
Mon, 21/12/09 – 14:09 | Comments Off
Romeo and Big Guy-ete

The purest form of love? It’s not that of a parent for a child or of one spouse for another. It’s the love a little boy has for his first true friend.
Big Guy has had …

Egg-free cranberry icebox cookies
Mon, 21/12/09 – 8:42 | Comments Off
Egg-free cranberry icebox cookies

Were it not for the fact that I’m incapable of rolling pretty little round logs of cookie dough, this might be the perfect recipe. It’s easy to make, has no hard-to-find egg replacers, and two …

Egg-free chocolate-espresso snowcaps
Sun, 20/12/09 – 17:26 | Comments Off
Egg-free chocolate-espresso snowcaps

Yes, there is such a thing as a cookie that’s too chocolate-y. I thought that was impossible, too, until today.
Based on a recipe from Martha Stewart’s Web site, the egg-free version behaves perfectly. It’s just …

Peanut-free haystacks
Sun, 20/12/09 – 13:24 | Comments Off
Peanut-free haystacks

Yes, it is possible to get sick of chocolate. And after making chocolate fudge, chocolate-raspberry fudge and chocolate cookies, I’d reached that point.
So I decided to give haystacks a try. But definitely not the chocolate …

Let it snow, let it snow … somewhere else
Sat, 19/12/09 – 10:53 | Comments Off
Let it snow, let it snow … somewhere else

Sitting on the patio in my pajamas in 56 sunny degrees, I felt guilty this morning.
Guilty because, when word of an impending blizzard filtered through Facebook yesterday evening, I called my mom around 6:30 p.m. …

Where are all those bad teachers? We’re not finding them
Fri, 18/12/09 – 11:42 | One Comment
Where are all those bad teachers? We’re not finding them

We got a call yesterday morning, just hours before the start of winter break, from Big Guy’s teacher. She’d wanted to know if he’d been sick the past two days – he had – and …

A SWAT for trying to disturb the peace at Christmas
Thu, 17/12/09 – 20:45 | Comments Off
A SWAT for trying to disturb the peace at Christmas

Merry Susan Hyatt is a 61-year-old substitute teacher in Redding, Calif., who’s also taught in Southern California. In all those years she seldom encountered students who weren’t Christian. “I don’t think I’ve ever had a …

Rolling along with sight words. So what.
Thu, 17/12/09 – 14:14 | Comments Off
Rolling along with sight words. So what.

A full eight months before he’s to start kindergarten, Boots already knows a half-dozen “sight” words.
I’d never say this to his face because it would break his little heart, but so what?
Yeah, yeah. I know. …

Hair today, in-school suspension tomorrow
Wed, 16/12/09 – 22:56 | One Comment
Hair today, in-school suspension tomorrow

Of all the things to go to the wall with a kid over, hair has to be the most ridiculous.
An odd-ball hair style causes no long-term damage – it can always be cut or grow …

All the comforts of “not made at home”
Wed, 16/12/09 – 13:47 | Comments Off
All the comforts of “not made at home”

When Big Guy came home yesterday he said his head was “silly” – he blamed it on a 63-question bubble test at school that day, and I was inclined to agree until he staggered upstairs …

Sexting and teens: The epidemic that’s not
Tue, 15/12/09 – 22:51 | Comments Off
Sexting and teens: The epidemic that’s not

Sexting among the high school set is a dangerous trend.
It’s bad enough that a principal in Virginia lost first his job and then his reputation even though he ultimately was cleared.
Bad enough that parents in …

Quaking behind the camera lens
Tue, 15/12/09 – 14:13 | Comments Off
Quaking behind the camera lens

I stood on tip toes and reached high above me, to the top shelf of the coat closet where the bag had been stashed since we moved. I used to leave it open in my …

“Private” text messages on the government dime doesn’t seem right
Mon, 14/12/09 – 21:21 | Comments Off
“Private” text messages on the government dime doesn’t seem right

In the electronic game of cops and robbers, the cops are winning – at least in the U.S. Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals.
Back in February, that court ruled that it was fine for prosecutors to …

Fa la la la blah … I’m just not feeling it
Mon, 14/12/09 – 15:03 | 2 Comments
Fa la la la blah … I’m just not feeling it

An inflatable snowman and Santa stand guard outside, and the tree lights up  the living room. The gifts are wrapped, and the guys have seen Santa twice. We’ve made gingerbread houses, and the Christmas programs …

The end-of-the-week angel
Fri, 11/12/09 – 12:19 | 3 Comments
The end-of-the-week angel

Thursday was a great day for Big Guy.
He won $10 and a chocolate bar at a bingo game then spent $8 of the take on Christmas presents for others. He volunteered to share the candy …

Temperatures aren’t the only things that freeze in the winter
Thu, 10/12/09 – 13:41 | Comments Off
Temperatures aren’t the only things that freeze in the winter

You know Dasher and Dancer and Prancer and Vixen. Comet and Cupid and Donder and Blitzen …
But do you know how scary it is up here? Even when the audience is all mommies and daddies …

Can we build an egg-free gingerbread house? Yes, we can
Wed, 9/12/09 – 22:29 | Comments Off
Can we build an egg-free gingerbread house? Yes, we can

Somewhere, there’s a”Max and Ruby” episode that involves gingerbread. I haven’t seen it but Boots has, and it set him clamoring to make houses. Foolishly, I promised him last week that we would over the …

Underwater? Go ahead, take a walk
Wed, 9/12/09 – 22:19 | One Comment
Underwater? Go ahead, take a walk

If you listened closely last winter, you could hear the soft drum beats in the background as Washington moved to help homeowners facing foreclosure.
“Unless we reduce the principal on loans, people will just walk away,” …

The household-object story challenge
Wed, 9/12/09 – 12:58 | Comments Off
The household-object story challenge

Used to be I thought the weirdest story assignment I’d ever tackled was in seventh grade, when the teacher told us to write about what life would be like inside a ping-pong ball.
That was before …

Doing right because it’s the right thing to do
Tue, 8/12/09 – 14:01 | Comments Off
Doing right because it’s the right thing to do

As much as I hate to crush a kid, sometimes doing so serves the greater good.
Times such as last night, when Big Guy dallied over his latest penance for misbehaving at school. He’d tossed Play-Doh …

Watch out for the duck and the cat on Facebook
Mon, 7/12/09 – 22:38 | Comments Off
Watch out for the duck and the cat on Facebook

I’m almost offended I wasn’t asked, except I realize I’m not in the right age group to be one of the cool kids.
When Daisy Feletin – 21 and  single – asked 100 people to be …

If you’re playing Santa, please know how you got there
Mon, 7/12/09 – 14:03 | Comments Off
If you’re playing Santa, please know how you got there

Maybe it’s because the guys ask every year, but for me “how did Santa get here” is a far more predictable question than “what do you feed the reindeer.”
It’s also far more likely to cause …